You have interesting stories to tell, but with guys it’s all about how you tell them. When they hear something, they process it in a more linear fashion than women do.In general, men aren’t as successful at multitasking as women are, so you need to get his attention.I'm talking about sexually charged woman who believes that good sex is a vital component of a romantic relationship and doesn't want to settle for anything less.My opinion about sexual transparency is practically heresy in the heterosexual dating advice world, where women are routinely admonished for letting it be known that they like sex.
While I agreed with most of her advice, I bristled as she urged women to "leave sex out of your profile" because "it gives men the wrong impression and encourages those you aren't interested in." My guess is that 99.9% of dating coaches would preach the same thing: AND you will attract men who are incapable of seeing women as anything more than penis receptacles.
This kind of reductionist thinking is horribly unfair to both sexes and, IMHO, is one reason men and women don't trust each other.
Women are socialized to believe that men are jerks and men resent women scrutinizing them for covert jerkiness.
" or "have you ever wished you could go back to a previous time in your life to do things differently?
" Open-ended questions are best for generating discussion.
Be sure to share information about yourself as well. If you can get her to laugh in a way she'll remember positively later on, that's great.